Do you realized this sometimes?

As long as you grow up, your parents grow older.Most of the times away from you also.

I saw the movie Baghban(before long time),And today sudden thought came in mind to write something on this.How often you talk to your parents and share your thoughts to them?
In the older age of parents, they have unexpressed feeling that their children should share the thoughts with them, which they were used to at their teenage   and care for them .For most of the times , parents are being asked for their well beingness just for formality.

They have hidden sadness in their minds, which they dont express.Its their greatness ,that they see , their children have no time for them. but dont utter a word.In older people tends to have pains in muscles or bones etc.But they just ignore it and bear it .have you ever asked them if they have any pain? If not please ask.Their half pain will be relieved only because of this healing talks.
Search for Therapist in your area to relieve their pain  and consult them , even its minor pain. 

 
Let your parents feel the comfort with your  young attitude, dont let them feel alone. Give some time to them. They are Just the Gods and their blessings are always with us. But those who never hurt their parents and have lot of care for them, get their' parents heartly blessings.

On the eve of Ganesh Chaturthi..

Human  discovered and innovated lot of things till the date, But he was not able to discover the lot of mysteries of nature.There is existence of God behind all this natural power.Different communities pray to God in their own way. but ultimate goal of all people is to reach to this natural power through their prayers for Peace, happiness and healthy life with all splendors.

God answers to prayers of human being,If he has purity of mind , you may  say सात्विकता , सत्भावना etc.

If you are in darkness of unhappiness. Then pray to God  ,Almighty will definitely throw the light of hope on you.

Whatever human is doing today , or whatever state he has achieved is  not only because of  his hardwork but also opportunities he got during his or her lifespan.

But ultimately more the  hardwork or smartwork ,God is always their to create more opportunities.

So God helps those who becomes responsible for  their own luck and never give up and keep trying for small milestones and one day  achieves what is required.  

So dont blame the Luck for the failures.Its ok if  some people have to face lot of struggles as compare to other  people.But look those struggles with positive attitude and  learn  from  battles. and enjoy the battles and  Struggles .

And say from depth  of your heart and soulfully 'Ganpati Bappa Morya'  .'Hey Vighnaharta,Empower us  to  face any challenge and to get the success, Make us so strong , that we  can handle any circumstance successfully. Give us the right direction for our thought process.

वक्रतुंडा महाकाय सूर्य कोटि समप्रभ ||

निर्विघ्नं कुरुमे देव सर्वकार्येशु सर्वदा || 

Meaning
O God Ganesha (large bodied with a large belly), radiant as millions of Suns, Please, remove obstacles in all of my tasks all the टाइम.

ॐ   एकदंताय  विदमहे ||

वक्रतुंडाय  धीमहि  ||

तन्नो  दंती  प्रचोदयात ||

  

Meaning

We devote our thoughts to the One Tusked Lord
We meditate upon Him who has a Curved trunk
May the tusked one guide us on the right path.

Ego and Self- Respect ?

Ego  and Self - respect  is one facet of human nature.
Every one should have the self respect.those who are deprived of it, always has negative thinking about their future .And High degree of self respect leads to Egoism.
Most of the times people dont care about  what is factual or what is authentic or logical.
They are more worried if their opinions will be followed or not .

This is the fact ..Lets look into it seriously.. If you already know , U r gr8.....

Hey folks,

        If  are creative , quick learner and grasper  and having all the great attitudes  but you are not diplomatic,Then its a big loophole of your personality.
Having Childish behaviour  is enjoyable till some extent and in respective scopes.
To specify these scopes,I would like to give some examples
 1)When you are with your friends and family or colleagues , and  enjoying leisure time.
 2)Its the party time and you all want to crack jokes
etc
But dont allow this attitude to step into scopes which requires extreme seriousness.and if this happens
It will really  give the undesired reflections.Be alert while such situations
For serious scopes like
1)Its time if  you are getting validated for your abilities like exams,interviews,competitions.
2)you are dealing with the person with high authorities and everything you do plays very important role for your success or Failure example onsite client.

Being Diplomatic and Being Alert means not  taking the things badly and thinking of resultant of your actions and preventing it.
Avoid complaining or if required present the complaint in positive manner

Another thing!!
Straightforwardness
Again this is the thing which is to be controlled depending on different scenarios.
For getting the things done for you, you need to pause Straightforwardness somewhere.

One more thing!! :)
If you are in new environment.dont act like introvert. try to make them comfortable  with good communication


So Be Diplomatic with required straightforwardness and still enjoy the seriousness

Pull Out The Laughter In you. Dont Miss It In Your Life :)

Having good sense of humour, is the best asset that anyone can have .Thats the hidden ability of everyone. Some people restrict themself for  getting this  joy as their minds are controlled by various other factors for which they are worried.People who has accomplished to discover this talent ,realy become happy  in any circumastances.

So why waiting , start cultivating this talent , which brings smile on  every ones face.
here I will enlist  links for triggering the sense of humour in you..
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Feel Good with Meditation !!!

For students,professionals or business peoples or any indivisual  who is undergoing lot of stress and tensions,Is required to listen meditational music.This meditational music is the collections of  alpha and beta waves at required frequencies.

Slip on your headphones, close your eyes and let the rich resonant tones of harmonically layered frequencies effortlessly guide you into the flow state of expanded consciousness. Frustrating mental blocks dissolve. You can think and perceive with crystal clarity. You feel invigorated as fresh neural pathways are opened to effortlessly access more of your untapped ability to learn, recall and create new ideas.

Positive thoughts produce positive results. The only problem is that some of our most persistent, self-defeating beliefs are stored deep in the unconscious mind, where they have the power to undermine our happiness and sabotage our success. Now you can effortlessly change those negative inner tapes to produce the results you want with this meditational music.
A special combination of brain wave frequencies are harmonically layered in soothing music to trigger heightened states of receptivity. Here, the unconscious is primed to receive and act on a new set of ideas. Subliminal messages are deeply absorbed by the unconscious to immediately and positively impact your sense of self, your creativity, and the dynamic expression of your power in the world.

so search for meditation music  and download

Whys and Wherefores are important to reach to root cause and solutions

Have you ever find yourself in stumbling  and jumbling situations ??
         Have you ever come across the situation that puts a question mark and makes you      thinking ''What  next?"   

                     I would like to put some thoughts on this
Any question arises is like a leaf of  tree And solution is like the root of the tree.If you want to  reach to root  from this leaf, you need to traverse from its branch, its parent branch es and finaly to main branch of tree and root.

The complexity of  any problem or situation  depends on at what level of branch  your problem is residing (this case is like leaf). You  can reach to  solution(root) ,If you identifed the depth  to root and  the parent  branches coming across.

Now the question is how to traverse to root.And the answer is step by step by querying
parent branches ,I mean to say  ask lot of questions . So be Curious always

:)